Well, Heavenly Father's life plan for us isn't always the same as our life plan for ourselves. When we had Sarah we knew she was a miracle. After a year of not getting pregnant, I went on clomid and 9 months later we had Sarah. We have the book "You Are My Miracle" and I have read it to her a million times because she truly is our miracle baby.
Well, about six months ago we went to the doctor (after about a year of hoping we wouldn't need medical help to have a second child). The doctor had me try clomid again. Well, long story short, it didn't work like last time. They will only let you take it for five times times before sending you to expensive fertility clinics. Well, the first four goes of it, my body did not react to it at all. So, in February, we were at our final shot at clomid. My doctor said I need to try to relax....so we decided to take a cruise for our last shot at it working, because hey...what is more relaxing than a cruise?! And, if it works, a cruise is less expensive than a fertility clinic, and hey...if it doesn't work at least we still got a fun trip out of it to soften the saddness, right?
So, we left Sarah in good hands (A BIG thanks to Grams and Grampy AND Grandma and Grandpa for watching her while we were gone. She had a BLAST!) and we took off to the Caribbean. We had lots of fun adventures. We stopped in Costa Maya, Cozumel, Belize, and the Cayman Islands. It was a blast.
Unfortunately, we know now that it did not work as we hoped it would, so a fertility clinic is our next step, and if that doesn't work, adoption or just waiting I guess. A quote that I like that Tyler got on a block for his birthday is by Neal A. Maxwell "Faith in God, includes faith in His timing." I know that things will all work out the way they are supposed to and I just need to remember that God knows what is best for me and for our family and have patience. We really are loving our lives right now, and enjoying having Sarah be such a fun age. She lights up our lives and we truly are grateful for the blessings that we have in our lives.
Our trip was STILL FUN and we enjoyed ourselves. Here are some pictures from our adventures.
Our first port was Costa Maya. Here is our cruise ship behind us, Liberty of the Seas. Oh yeah, and a MONKEY on my shoulder!!!!! It was so cool!
In Costa Maya we got amazing $20 massages on a beach near this one.
then went and saw some Mayan ruins.
They really like foot statues in Costa Maya for some reason, so we of course had to have pictures by them. :) (this is why it's kinda fun having a Foote as your last name)
Our second port was Belize. We did jungle ziplining and cave tubing and bonded with our tour group. It was a blast being with these awesome people. In fact, we now have two honorary sons in Chicago. Here is a picture with our "sons." :) They called us "mom and dad."
Our next stop was Cozumel. We were supposed to go scuba diving, but the weather did not cooperate (70 mile and hour winds the night before). I was sad about missing out on scuba. Instead, we rented a scooter (but sadly took no pic of us on it!) and cruised around together. We hit up the beach and ate some real Mexican food. It was so yummy!
Our last port was Grand Cayman, and we hit up Sting Ray City. This was freaking me out for weeks before we got there. Surprisingly, I thought it was awesome, and wished we could have stayed a little longer. The guide assured us that we were safe and that this was a different kind of sting ray than killed Steve Irwin. He even put the barb in his mouth to show us there was nothing to fear. The sting rays are super soft feeling and come rub against your legs like cats. It was crazy and freaky at first. Then, when I was starting to think it was cool, it was time to leave.
Our cruise ship was a blast too. When we weren't playing in port. We relaxed and hit up some mini golf, flow rider, amazing food, ice skating, shows, fancy shmancy formal night, pools, games, reading, and just had fun being together.
THANK YOU TYLER FOR TAKING ME ON AN AMAZING TRIP! YOU'RE THE BEST AND I LOVE YOU!!!!
